#1 2008-05-02 15:04:05
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How rude and arrogant can you get.
I have read the reviews by Garry from Dundee Scotland. Not only on my site but on someone else's also. Does this man think that he is the only one that knows a good site or is the only one that can do a good site. It seems that every other word out of his little head is "i"
If your going to review do it but don't boast about your self and your ego. Your site don't look that great either.
I am made now.
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#2 2008-05-02 16:42:04
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Re: How rude and arrogant can you get.
Now, Janina, the cranky one. 
It would be really good for you to make yourself a nice cup of tea and relax a bit while you sit and drink it.
In a more relaxed state you may be able to recognize a well optimized link drop with a sales pitch attached.
A little more subtle is the tactic of bunging on a blue in order to extend keyword rich spam.
So maybe after your cuppa you can either kick yourself or laugh at yourself for being sucked in. 
And here's a thought: have a look at my website at http://www.southimage.net/wilderness-travel/ and enter a completely different world.
You'll surely find it a pleasant distraction to immerse yourself in an environment of campfires, camp cooking, traveling on an ATV, sleeping in an old stockmen's hut, discovering the route and campsites of the greatest of the Australian inland explorers and surviving in an inhospitable environment where ill-prepared travelers perish, even in this modern day. 
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#3 2008-05-02 19:07:24
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Re: How rude and arrogant can you get.
He just got me on the wrong day. If this was yesterday it would have been all right and I probably would have shrugged it off.
I do feel a lot better and felt better after I wrote the previous message. (Just before that I did email him and told him that his review had too many "I' in it for me to feel that he was credible.
I love reviews because they do help you a lot.. The suggestion that you need to have someone else do it for you does not help you to learn. I got the impression from this guy that we were all beneath him and he really could not be bothered with us little people. Sorry to go off on this subject. Now I'll go have some beer.
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#4 2008-05-02 21:32:19
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Re: How rude and arrogant can you get.
he is just taking a hardline approach to try and tout for business....if things don't match to HIS expectations he thinks it is wrong, rather than acknowledging that the web is made up of all sort of sites, skills and people.
Think is, this is a forum for beginners and more advanced alike - I hope this will be recognised and some genuine assistance given.
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#5 2008-05-05 08:38:57
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Re: How rude and arrogant can you get.
Don't you love it when that happens? :-)
So irritating.
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#6 2008-05-06 08:33:26
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Re: How rude and arrogant can you get.
Hi Ninak,
Are you sure his name started with a G and not a B..
Enjoy the beer lol .
Cheers Jan.
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#7 2008-05-16 15:56:21
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Re: How rude and arrogant can you get.
B not G. (was upset when I initially wrote it.)
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#8 2008-05-20 15:30:35
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Re: How rude and arrogant can you get.
matte wrote:
he is just taking a hardline approach to try and tout for business....if things don't match to HIS expectations he thinks it is wrong, rather than acknowledging that the web is made up of all sort of sites, skills and people.
Think is, this is a forum for beginners and more advanced alike - I hope this will be recognised and some genuine assistance given.
ha ha
im not touting for any business here ,.,,
I have enough that i have to get on with
When i do a site review im just being honest as people do when i ask for a site review.
Nothing harsh and especially no bull .. i like to tell it how i see it
im not interested in business from this forum so please do not be under the delusion that im touting as you put it
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#9 2008-05-20 15:31:41
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Re: How rude and arrogant can you get.
ninak wrote:
I have read the reviews by Garry from Dundee Scotland. Not only on my site but on someone else's also. Does this man think that he is the only one that knows a good site or is the only one that can do a good site. It seems that every other word out of his little head is "i"
If your going to review do it but don't boast about your self and your ego. Your site don't look that great either.
I am made now.
my name is Barry .. please read before you criticise me
Im honest and to the point ... if you dont lie it then dont read my posts
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#10 2008-05-22 15:39:29
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Re: How rude and arrogant can you get.
barry & I joined the site around the same time & I specifically remember him because he was incredibly rude in my own site review. He said it was amateurish (never mind that I do this for a living and have a bachelor of arts degree) and said I should look at his site to see how things should be done. I'm glad I did look at his site because it gave me a good laugh and then I didn't pay anymore attention to him.
So don't worry too much about it niknak...there will always be rude and arrogant people in the world...sometimes they are not even that way intentionally, but just have trouble communicating effectively.
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#11 2008-05-22 17:37:25
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Re: How rude and arrogant can you get.
yeah? well U all suck.... hows that?
While art is wonderful and pleasing to the eye something to strive for.. it is generally not the point of a website. I dare say that even a website that is selling art had best be somewhat non-descript so as not to outshine the product.
I began in web design because I enjoyed art and creating graphics.... after 10 years I can say without hesitation that art/design is something that needs to be put into a box and measured along with the other attributes of a website that accomplish the end goal....
This means that essentially we are all wrong and all suck ultimately. It is the consumers of the materials, products and services of a given site that are right. We can only best guess when creating designs or content, we never know until we measure.
Testing such as A/B and recently debated multivariate along with a strong funnel/traffic measurement analytics will tell you in the end if your work is of any quality to the end user.
So why debate who's advice sucks? ... I wouldn't worry about it - we all suck.
Anyone miss me? ha ha haha.... so nice to have the cast off... too much reading and not enough ranting the last few months....
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#12 2008-05-22 20:39:54
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Re: How rude and arrogant can you get.
Gypsie, Gypsie, Gypsie,
Sure did miss you.........................................Sure are glad you are back..............................Now it's my turn to go away for a while......................................
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#13 2008-05-22 21:25:07
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Re: How rude and arrogant can you get.
well, while reading more than ranting the last few months a respected mate wrote something that went;
Don't personally attack others
Don't respond to personal attacks
..as a ranting madman on my blog and forums over the years I believe this to be solid advice really... there are so many different people with different ideas of likes/dislikes/right/wrong that it is pointless. What matters is the website... at least from a professional standpoint..
... even on a personal level, there is little to be gained in waging wars upon words... hopefully I can live up to those prose and cause myself less grief in the future...hee hee..... see how that goes ;0)
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#14 2008-05-22 21:46:59
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Re: How rude and arrogant can you get.
Hi all ...
OBNOXIOUS IS A BETTER WORD FOR THAT PERSON..
And Gypsys right ignore .. Lol No personal attacks! Which is why i didn,t use a name..
Takes all sorts to make a world i guess .
If someone gets up my nose i sneeze ..Cant help it its an automatic response.
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#15 2008-05-22 22:36:27
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Re: How rude and arrogant can you get.
really it is quite simple, mere use expressions like "I suggest" "You might like to try" "My view is"
Lets face it - the net is a wonderful place where people can achieve their results in a number of ways tables v css for layout, this colour v that colour - there are no laws, just guidelines.
So suggesting politely that some other option might be better is all we can do.
I seem to remember one hardliner we had to run out of town, it seems the mold may not have been broken 
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#16 2008-05-23 04:03:10
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Re: How rude and arrogant can you get.
barry wrote:
ha ha
im not touting for any business here ,.,,
I have enough that i have to get on with
When i do a site review im just being honest as people do when i ask for a site review.
Nothing harsh and especially no bull .. i like to tell it how i see it
im not interested in business from this forum so please do not be under the delusion that im touting as you put it
HAhahhaha... i think he did that on purpose
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ha ha
barry's not touting for any business here ,.,,
barry have enough that barry have to get on with
When barry do a site review barry just being honest as people do when barry ask for a site review.
Nothing harsh and especially no bull .. barry like to tell it how barry see it
barry not interested in business from this forum so please do not be under the delusion that barry touting as you put it
And no, thats not a personal attack, just lightening up the atmosphere
(10 references to yourself in 5 lines is jolly impressive though -
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#18 2008-05-30 11:17:35
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.... and where ya going?
Sorry Gypsy, didn't respond sooner. Was going to go to another state for what was to be a short time. Friend was very ill. Now she is at peace and we are just trying to sort things out withourt going anywhere. so I am still in my own neighborhood physically, but mentally joined to another place, so may be times that I just don't feel like turning the computer on. Janina
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#19 2008-05-30 15:26:23
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Re: How rude and arrogant can you get.
Ryan_steyn wrote:
barry wrote:
ha ha
im not touting for any business here ,.,,
I have enough that i have to get on with
When i do a site review im just being honest as people do when i ask for a site review.
Nothing harsh and especially no bull .. i like to tell it how i see it
im not interested in business from this forum so please do not be under the delusion that im touting as you put itHAhahhaha... i think he did that on purpose
One step away from my favourite type of person
let me show you ....
barry - alter ego wrote:
ha ha
barry's not touting for any business here ,.,,
barry have enough that barry have to get on with
When barry do a site review barry just being honest as people do when barry ask for a site review.
Nothing harsh and especially no bull .. barry like to tell it how barry see it
barry not interested in business from this forum so please do not be under the delusion that barry touting as you put it
And no, thats not a personal attack, just lightening up the atmosphere
(10 references to yourself in 5 lines is jolly impressive though -
)
--- if offense is taken please feel free to reference my "i"'s right back at me
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#20 2008-06-04 04:47:42
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lol.. i owuld love to explain it Sora but unfortunately i can not find the words
It will come to you soon enough though 
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